mum and aunty paulette birthday

LOOK IAM WALKING MUM AND DAD!!!!!
1st .05 Ben took 5 step with out any support , he was so proud of him self that he couldn't stop giggling and it made him fall down from the laughter that he had, Ben had been having another dilation . it has been getting more tight so Steve will have a meeting with Joe to see what we can do, Ben had been given his flu shot this month but will have to go back 4-6 week for the other shot at lease he be protected this winter, i have also given Ben his first hair cut has he look different with it , but after 2 week after having it done his curl are coming back,
8,05 Ben is getting better with his walking, as he still crawl he also getting better in himself to walk more he even walk with his bag on his back as it a bit heavy but he will have to get used to it,
Ben is still having full gastronomy feeds as we have been trying to feed him orally he just seem to reflux chuck it up it so hard mainly at tea time when we are all having all our tea and he want our tea, it hurts us cause we want to give it to him but we cant cause of the meat , i have try to give him spud but he Chuck it up to it is very hard to said no and he get very up set , but what can we do , who long will Ben be on this pump , who know, but i glad that his pump still gives him the food that i cant give , he weigth at the moment is 10,02 kilo and he heigth is 76 cm , Ben also have been rolling toy backward and forward and pushing Erick ride on thomas the tank train he is using it has a walker ,
Ben used to have a walker but he had to sell it cause he couldn't move it much has the house floor has carpet made it hard for the wheels to move ,so Ben finding other ways to help him with that extra help,
every time i would like to scrapbooking he must know cause he want me and i have to stop and go to him , the best time i can only do it when the kids are asleep,
we had a appioment with Dr Micheal nowonty and he is so happy with ben process and his development he is working in getting some of the work over to Monash instead of royal children as monash is closer , but we have gotten so friendly with the stuff of children, a lot of think that we have to do, should we stay with the children or go to Monash? he will be sending me the paper work to see Dr Chris kimba (he had done Claire heruia when she was 2 year old she has a double heruia)
well Ben finally walk on the 14.05.2007 well done, but he find him self more bore has he cant go picking up thing from the floor to put in his mouth , but it very rare he craw,
WHAT BEAUTIFUL MOTHER DAY I HAD
i had a beautiful mother day , it was wonderful has i have ben for thus mother day , for mother day i has received bresfast in bed, and the present came afterword , i has received a pink dona cover for the bed and then Claire had gotten me a mini lava lump and a pot plant, it was very cute, Erick had gotten me where a plate the he had mace in kinder garden and made a card it was cute has the card was shape had a tea cup with a tea bag in it, very cute, and it was all lovely, and i spend the rest of the day in bed , and i need to catch my energy up and have that restful sleep that i been drying to get,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MUM , HIP HIP WOO WAY
well another year older and deep in debt,!not! well Am officially 29 year old, dam, for my birthday i was glad to have Ben home for my birthday i couldn't ask for a better present to have him home,for my birthday i had received pj and they all put in for a new phone nokia6800 , it was very lovely,
Ben still having his dilation Evey two weeks and one stage he cough up something from his throat , don't know what it was was it look like part of this scarring from the site of the join, it very rare that Ben has a bottle has i do offer him a bottle still up and still cougth the what he had in the bottle, so at the moment he having tube feeds,

***please excuse has i haven't got any pic has yet has the computer doesn't support the photo program, ***

happy birthday to ben , 1 year old

i have been looking forward to this month , this month is Ben birthday and he will be turning one, has this approach us i think a year ago , he was in the children hospital waiting for his operation , that pain taking and exhausting 12 month , just sitting and waiting the first 3 month finding when will his operation will be and not really get any answer from it was so frusting not knowing then at first thinking if i was the only one who know only too little, but it was good knowing that they where other parent with this that knowing that i am not alone,

Ben still have his dilation every two week, as i am getting things done for his birthday, have to organzied the venue, and the people who are coming, we have decide that ben birthday will be at gumbya park ,Victoria. cause he couldn't really eat foods i thought it would be nice just to look at the wildlife and take in the site ,it will be held on the 17.03.2006 at 12:00pm just hoping it will be a lovely day.

the eve to his birthday
i had to pick up his balloons and to start to cook some cake get party bag ready, the people who would be attending will be Paulette Paul, Jason, jenny and the family nice and small, there where others but after i had everything ready they cancelled at the last moment , it piss both Paul and my self off cause we cater for them too,

*****HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEN **
Well i never througth that this day would arrival but it has getting ready to go and we arrival at the venue gumbya park the weather held up nicely we then took Ben to have a look at the wildlife and we stared to cook the food it had smelt so good .the foods which were there chocolate moose,lollies, cakes, meat chops, salad, chicken wings bites that there was too much to mention, Ben saw his cake, which i had made his birthday cake, his cake was shape has a one with smarties around it look good, after singing happy birthday and Erick was try to blow the candle,while Ben couldn't wait to pick at the cake and tasting the icing and after cutting the cake , we then gave him his present,
what Ben received were Winnie the pooh ride and rocker car (ride on) , miss potoe head, a small car, and most important was a (medical alert bracelet auntie Paulette and uncle Paul, has pay for it but waiting for it to arrival,) auntie Brooke and family have sent his present down so hopefully it arrival Monday or Tuesday, after everyone having a go on the rides, it was time to go home, after a long day but a nice day other wise Ben really enjoyed him, but most of the day he had fallen asleep and enjoying the sun

Monday 19/03
it has arrival Ben present it was a little people fisher price fire truck, and ernie (sesame street toy) he just love it, mainly the hair , had it remined him of daddy hair had he keep ripping hid daddy hair, ouch,

25.03
Ben is taken again to the hospital more Silvia maybe another dilutions due?, Ben is getting so good with his crawling if only if he stop picking up the finest thing of the floor, even if the house is clear he still mange to find something, i can but cant wait for him to walk, so we doesn't pick up has much thing this way, but he will end up finding something